where are you going? • 18 comments • Before we went on our trips to Tokyo and Dubai, the question we’d get most often from people was “Why?”. We got the sense that a few of them seemed to be asking “Why (bother)?” Our responses generally included the fact that we had always wanted to visit these places and that we expected it to be a great experience. I understand that not everyone enjoys traveling, but it seemed like a strange reaction. The worst was a (non-Canadian) customs agent we spoke to on our way to Dubai. He wondered why we wanted to visit Dubai when "that's where the terrorists come from". I bit my tongue and chose not to tell him that his country is both a trading partner and military ally with the U.A.E. Since announcing our upcoming trip the question we get most often is “where are you going?”. This is harder to answer. When we say “everywhere” it might sound naive, but our tentative plan is to visit all of the continents and as many countries as our patience and pocketbooks will allow. There are, of course, places we can't go. Afghanistan is obviously not the safest travel destination at the moment, and unfortunately Pakistan seems a little too risky right now as well. Hopefully things change while we're on the road because I've heard that they're beautiful countries. We're interested in seeing both Burma and North Korea, but both countries come with ethical dilemmas. Traveling in these countries means providing financial support to the military regimes (in the form of visas or government owned hotels). I've heard that in Burma if you avoid the resorts you can support the locals directly by staying in guesthouses. North Korea, on the other hand, requires you to be accompanied by a handler at all times and your visit will only support the government. I think we'll have some time to make that decision. I have a feeling that our best bet is going to be to start in Mexico rather than Asia (as we previously thought). If we don't leave until late September we're hoping to travel through China and South East Asia in the fall, which might not be the best time. I'm thinking that going to Mexico and working our way through Central and South America might be the best way to start. I guess we'll have to wait and see where life takes us. photos from our trip to Dubai, where we got engaged
